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Get Organised.
Get Calm.
Feel Empowered for the Road Ahead.

Overwhelmed by the System or simply don't have the time to face it?



 










 

 

 

What is "Court Readiness"?

A lawyer manages your legal strategy; I manage your emotional and administrative foundation. This package is a structured, practical program designed to strip away the chaos of the process.

  • Administrative & Timeline Organisation: High-conflict cases generate massive paper trails. Together, we will objectively organise your facts, timeline events chronologically, and neatly tabulate documents so you save time and money with your lawyer.

  • Emotional Balance & Regulation: Learn targeted grounding tools specifically for managing severe anxiety, panic or triggers during cross-examination, mediation and court appearances.

  • De-Escalation & Communication Coaching: Master business-like communication strategies to handle high-conflict co-parenting apps, hostile emails and third-party interactions without losing your calm.

  • Demystifying the Environment: Practical preparation for the emotional impact of family reports and understanding court etiquette, so you know exactly what to expect on the day.

 

Show Up Empowered, Not Overwhelmed

You do not have to walk into this process feeling disorganised or defeated. Let’s organise your paperwork, stabilise your emotional boundaries, and ensure your voice is heard clearly through the noise.

Let's Get You Divorce Ready.​
 
The Australian family law system can be complex, clinical and intensely stressful. When you’re navigating disputes with an ex-partner, lawyer meetings, family reports or impending court dates, the sheer volume of paperwork, decisions and emotional triggers can leave you feeling overwhelmed and unsure where to begin.

You cannot think clearly when your nervous system is in survival mode.
 
As your Divorce Coach and Counsellor, I step in to bridge the gap between your emotional reality and the clinical legal system. I bring lived experience and deep professional insight to help you show up for your legal team—and the court—as your best, most organised, and most composed self.
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Important Disclaimer: I am a registered counsellor and divorce coach. I provide emotional support, coping strategies and practical organisational coaching. I do not provide legal or financial advice. I do not draft official affidavits, provide legal case strategies or offer forensic court reports. All clients are strongly encouraged to seek independent legal and financial advice. Together, we can identify the right team of professionals to support you through the process.

VIRGINIA HAYEM

BInt Stud (Lang & Comm)

Grad Dip Couns (MHPra) (AQF level 8)

Member of the Australian Counselling Association (ACA) #R83928

Member of the Australian & New Zealand Mental Health Association (ANZMHA)

Member of Psychology Today http:/psychologytoday.com/

Member of Home Visit Network https://homevisitnetwork.com.au/

New Farm, Paddington and Windsor Locations 

Brisbane, Australia

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I offer home visits in Brisbane where appropriate and on a case-by-case basis. Feel free to reach out to find out more.​​​

 

My fees are aligned with industry standards and support the ongoing training, supervision and ethical practice that ensure high-quality care.

 

To help make counselling more accessible, I offer a reduced fee for clients with a Pension or Health Care Card.

 

Please note: Medicare rebates and private health insurance claims are not available.

 

In-clinic and Telehealth counselling sessions are $190/hr

In-home and Walk & Talk sessions are $240/hr

Divorce Coaching rates vary depending on your individual needs and will be discussed and confirmed following your initial counselling session, once we have identified the support and preparation that will be most helpful for you.

Urgent or after-hours sessions may be higher depending on location and time.

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